https://wheellove.ca/wheel-love-photo-challenge/ Lessons in life, love and wheelies Thu, 08 Nov 2018 21:36:47 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.0.3 https://wheellove.ca/wheel-love-photo-challenge/#comment-471 Mon, 07 Nov 2016 05:57:31 +0000 https://wheellove.ca/?p=466#comment-471 Thanks for writing to me Carrie,
It is obviously a society issue as everyone thinks there life is perfect but in reality no has a perfect life. I think for me what affects me the most is people pre-judging me without actually knowing me. They see a man in a wheelchair and for some reason think I am not smart or lacking. Before I was injured I had no problem dating or finding a girlfriend. Afterwards I can see how hard it is just to be considered as someone to date or possibly be a man worth being married to. I guess I have not learned to take rejection very well and I am already a reserved and a bit of a shy and quiet guy anyway. Thanks for your advise. I could maybe regroup and have a different approach of dealing with the opposite sex, but peoples preconceived thoughts are usually very hard to change..
Brett… ]]> https://wheellove.ca/wheel-love-photo-challenge/#comment-440 Wed, 02 Nov 2016 16:05:53 +0000 https://wheellove.ca/?p=466#comment-440 Brett,
Forget her, no one deserves anyone like that. Finding someone is extremely hard, I have been intensely dating for 6 years. I still haven’t found someone yet. I do have some extra weight, but I’m working to get it off. It’s not just you. Our society can’t stand being the odd one out. I obviously don’t know your side of things, but I do understand the feeling of being worthless and not good enough.
Keep dating don’t let it get you down. The one thing I’ve gained is a thicker skin and can handle rejection better. (It still sucks but it’s not making me want to give up.) ]]> https://wheellove.ca/wheel-love-photo-challenge/#comment-411 Thu, 27 Oct 2016 02:54:12 +0000 https://wheellove.ca/?p=466#comment-411 I really think it would be awesome to do. Take pics with your significant other together. However, I find that no one will date me and it is very hard to find any woman that will. The last time I asked a woman out for dinner her reply to me was I don’t date retarded people and what makes you think I would. I was blindsided by her comment and felt really small and worthless. I have not had the nerve to ask anyone out since then. People in society don’t like disabled and paralyzed people. I wish I could find a woman that would go out with me. I wish I was married. For just that to happen it would have to be a miracle to happen.. ]]>